Hello I hear you and I understand how painful it must be, to be in a difficult relationship. A healthy relationship is supposed to make you feel supported, loved and cared for and you deserve to be in a happy, healthy relationship. If you know that you are being cheated and not given enough value, I think that it is best for you to take a step back. I know that it is easier said than done, but step away when you cannot find peace for a really long time.
There could be different reasons to you wishing that it did work out, but at this phase I think that it is extremely important that you reach out to a mental health professional. Psychologists are experienced professionals who would be able to guide you through it. There are different types of therapy depending on your need.
Therapy will guide you to regain the lost self-esteem, confidence and also help you to make healthy decisions and above all lift you up from this place of distress and help you get into a calmer and more peaceful state of mind.The best thing you could do is to go for therapy.I understand that you are going through a rough patch at this point, but it's important to tell yourself that this is not how it is going to be forever. You will be happy again, you will find love again. Running away from it all is the worst thing you can do, there are still so many things to live for and maybe this is something you can explore a lot more.
However here are a few things you should know:
Learn to let go- If you are in a toxic relationship, know that you have enough strength to come out of it.
You deserve better- No matter how unconditional your love was in the relationship, unless it goes both ways, it is not worth it.
Stop waiting for your partner to change- If your partner hasnât changed in the last two years it is highly unlikely that he will start putting in effort and try to change now.
Accept that it will hurt- When you finally let go of it, it is going to be extremely hard, but know that it is a big step you took in the right direction. When you feel hurt, cry it out and let yourself feel everything you feel.
Take some time off- Take a break and go on a vacation or do something else that calms you down and takes your mind off of things.
Know that happiness is in your control- You are in charge of your life and it is important to take care of your mental and physical health. Taking back control begins with you. Love yourself.
Forgiveness is a great quality, but know when you have to step away.
Domestic violence should not be taken lightly. If you feel like you are in a potentially dangerous situation, please reach out immediately.
Use the time you have to explore your hobbies and interests or to travel to new places.
You are not alone, you will get through this!
Answered2021-03-23 14:32:30
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