There must be some kind of misunderstanding or irritation on other things that you must be removing on your husband.. try to give some space to self to find about the same and talk to your husband about it.
Next Steps
If you are unable to do so kindly see a therapist and he or she will be able to help you better
Health Tips
Start diary writing that will give u a reflection of the situations you get upset that removes your frustration at times on others