Hello there. I can understand your concern. What is the issue here? He doesn't want to do it or he doesn't feel like doing it or he cannot do it? I mean is he is having issues with erection, then we will suggest accordingly. And also what do you mean by "we are planning for a baby?" When he doesn't even do it, how is he planning the baby? Its only you that are planning the baby. Kindly consult a sex therapist or a infertility expert regarding this. Best regards. Dr. Anil kumar jain.