Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex since a long time. I am a virgin. It's pains extremely when he tries to insert himself even with all the foreplay. It feels like there's a wall in between. And because of the pain I get turned off and it then pains more if we keep going. Also it feels it's easier for me to orgasm with masturbation than with foreplay. I've told him all the points that I feel pleasure at but it still feels different as to when I do it. The exact point. And I don't feel pleasure when he tries to do it then.