Thank you for sharing your experience so honestly. What you're going through is a common but painful form of anxiety that arises when spiritual teachings are misinterpreted or internalized in a way that creates fear instead of peace. Watching the teachings of Premanand Ji Baba has been beneficial for you in many aspects of life, which is wonderful. However, the specific statement about dreams seen after 4 a.m. being meaningful and possibly indicating future events seems to have triggered a deep fear response in you. This is especially understandable when the topic relates to dreams involving death, accidents, or loss—subjects that naturally provoke anxiety in anyone.
From a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) perspective, this anxiety is being fueled by a type of cognitive distortion known as magical thinking or fortune-telling. This happens when we begin to believe that certain thoughts or events—like dreams—can predict or cause future outcomes. While the mind is trying to protect you by being cautious, it's doing so based on fear, not fact. There is no scientific or psychological evidence to support that a dream, even one seen during "Brahma Muhurat," can literally predict a real-world event. Dreams are usually reflections of our inner thoughts, unresolved emotions, or daily experiences—not prophecies.
Next Steps
What’s making this fear stronger is a behavior known in CBT as a safety behavior. In your case, you're waking up before 4 a.m. to avoid the possibility of seeing any dreams during that time, hoping this will prevent something bad from happening. While this might feel like it's helping short-term, it actually reinforces the fear and strengthens the belief that dreams are dangerous or predictive. Over time, this can increase anxiety, disrupt your sleep, and create a pattern of avoidance that takes over your peace of mind.
One way to start healing is to gently challenge the belief itself. Ask yourself: Have I had dreams after 4 a.m. that never came true? Do millions of people across the world have intense or negative dreams that don’t result in real-world harm? The answer is almost certainly yes. You can even try a small experiment—let yourself sleep normally for a few days, write down any dreams you remember, and observe what actually happens. You'll likely gather evidence that nothing harmful follows those dreams, and your anxiety will start to lose its power.
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It’s also important to reframe how you're interpreting spiritual teachings. Even great spiritual teachers may say things that can be misunderstood if taken literally or without full context. The heart of most spiritual paths is inner peace, surrender, and faith—not fear. A more helpful perspective might be: "If I trust in a higher power, I don't need to be afraid of dreams. My faith is stronger than my fears."
To support this mentally and emotionally, you might consider practicing grounding techniques like deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation before bed. You can also create a habit of saying peaceful affirmations such as, “My dreams are just stories of the mind—I am safe,” or “I trust life, and I choose calm.” These practices will help retrain your brain to feel safe during rest and sleep.
In summary, your anxiety is understandable, but it’s also treatable. With tools from CBT, you can learn to gently challenge the fearful thoughts, shift your perspective, and let go of habits that are keeping the fear alive. You don’t need to live under the weight of dream-related anxiety. Peaceful sleep and a calm mind are possible again—and you can take small steps each day to return to that state of balance.