She can be given idly,dosa, sprouts upma, vegetables greens uthappam ,adai pesarattu mixed cereal porridge roti ane good amounts of dhal ,sambhar,from. variety of lentils and vegetables as curries moderately spiced on a regular basis and as she shows some allergies towards milk I.can suggest equalent sources of
calcium, protein if you can connect through practo online consult at MEASURES AND SERVES.