Partner has herpes

2020-09-21 08:18:32
My partner has herpes (hsv 1 as far as he knows but could be hsv 2 also). I feel really anxious about getting it from him, especially because I've read that herpes in the eyes can cause blindness. We are considering marriage but the herpes bit is scaring me - I'm worried about getting painful outbreaks and other complications. What is the best way to manage this and avoid getting it from him? Is there any hope for a vaccine/cure? He takes valtrex (I think) everyday. I was also wondering how long I should wait to get myself tested - our last interaction was about a month ago and we probably won't see each other for another 2-3 months at least. I got tested last year and the result was negative for herpes but we have been meeting each other regularly over the past year. Thank you.
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HSV 1 is oral herpes. With herpes, the active lesions are more likely to be infective (for eg, visible cold sores around the mouth). But a person can transmit the virus even without having active lesions. As long as your partner is on antiviral medication, there won’t be risk of transmission to you.
Next Steps
It is not necessary to keep getting yourself tested unless you have symptoms. In case of genital herpes, using condoms can give some protection.
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There is no cure but this is a treatable condition, and can be managed well medically. I would suggest counselling by an infectious disease specialist/ gynaecologist to help you get over your fear and anxiety.

Answered2020-09-21 16:25:17

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Which part of the body did he get herpes? Did he ever get any herpes lesions near his private parts? There is no vaccine.Consult online

Answered2020-09-21 15:29:35

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Hi dear, Yes it is really a challenging situation. We recommend testing after 3 m from suspected infection. Use condoms all the time but that is not a foolproof protection. Early detection can reduce misery if treatment is started early . Even if u do hv the virus in your system it depends on ur own body immunity as to the severity and extend of lesions

Answered2020-09-21 15:28:12

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The incubation period for herpes virus is short usually 4 to 5 days. After that incubation period it erupts in the form of the vesicles and the symptoms show up.After the vesicles heal in 4 to 5 weeks, the virus lays dormant in our body and is not transmitted during that time period from person to person.
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Best way to avoid it is to maintain proper personal hygiene, avoid contact when a person is in the active phase of the infection that is when the vesicles have erupted.

Answered2020-09-21 15:26:32

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