This sounds like it could be vaginismus - take a look at the NHS website - https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/vaginismus
I would recommend an evaluation by a gynaecologist but just as a first step, to rule out any other physical health issues. For a next step, please do consult a sex therapist or a psychiatrist.
Answered2023-10-12 14:23:53
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