Hi,
I understand, what you’ are experiencing is a common form of anxiety where your brain gets stuck on a specific thought—like whether you should look at someone’s eyes or mouth while talking—and it starts to feel very important and disturbing.
The truth is, there’s no perfect or correct way to look at someone’s face during a conversation; people naturally shift their gaze between the eyes, mouth, and other parts of the face, and that’s completely normal.
Your brain is trying to find certainty where it doesn’t need to, which is why the thought feels haunting. This kind of obsessive doubt often shows up when you’re stressed, like during exam time. The more you try to “fix” the thought, the more power it gains.
Instead, try to gently accept the thought without fighting it, remind yourself it’s just anxiety—not a real problem—and refocus on your studies, even if it feels hard at first. With practice and self-kindness, this thought will lose its power.
If it continues to bother you, speaking to a counselor can really help, as this is very treatable.
Counselling can help by giving you practical tools to manage anxious thoughts, reduce overthinking, and regain focus so your mind feels calmer and more in control, equipped with these tools like thought-challenging to break mental loops, mindfulness to stay grounded, exposure techniques to reduce fear of the thought, and relaxation exercises like deep breathing to calm your nervous system.
Next Steps
Consult .
Health Tips
Practice deep breathing exercises.