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Not able to say no to people
Dear Doctors,
I am CA student working in a firm for about 4 years and i am doing my training in that firm. As i am hardworking and do new things and explore new opportunities. But i feel that my employer is suppressing me in work. I feel he always treat me different and rough with me and he treat other collegues very well. He always make me to do laborous work, eh kro, woh kro. And if i did not do that due to work load he says bus 10 minute ka kaam tha and all. He makes me more anger and controll myself due to my ongoing training and i am not able to speak the truth and say things that was not my fault and things go against me and he points me out. I always treat people with a good intention to help them and help myself to grow. But this employer makes me more irritated and disbalanced mind get created. Still my 9 months training left and i don't know what to do, one side my career and one the very egoistic employer. Please guide me.
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Dear concerned you seem to have issues with your expression of behaviour. You are passive most of the time in expressing your wants, opinion, communication or behaviour. Please do see a clinical psychologist to overcome the above concerns. You may connect to me on practo consult.
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Hi, you are a hardworking person and you like to explore new opportunities which is impressive. You also treat people well which is a good quality to have. Your concern is your employer treats you differently and you feel stressed because of it. You feel your employer is not giving you the credit you deserve and your colleagues get more appreciation than you. Your concern is you are not able to talk about how you feel with your employer. You are not able to tell your employer that certain issues are making you feel uncomfortable. It is good to know you are focused on your career. You can consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through in the workplace. A psychologist will guide you on possible ways to handle work-related situations.
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Consult a psychologist.
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Hey
You can definitely work on it
Basically it can arise from fear and lack of assertion
Therapy can help you grow
We need to have control on ourselves can't control others
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online
All the best
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Hello dear
First of all, you are a very hard working person and you want to explore new opportunities in life as well. You have good intentions towards others and your work.
You might not be facing problems because you aren't able to say no to others. You are not able to express your feelings and problems to your boss in a correct way because you feel suppressed. Plus, burn out issues can also be there. There could be many other reasons as to why are you not able to express yourself and do it right. Contact a good counsellor who could assist you with how you can get back your work-life on track! You can also contact me.
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It looks like that, by trying to impress othersand by trying to do new and innovative ideas you are unknowingly taking a longer time than regular..
As mentioned by you, you have only another 9 months to complete your term in this firm.. It is better to complete all those work which is been delegated to you than trying to impress..
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For more details and clarity you can connect with me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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