hi there, i have just read about ur query and i think i understand what u mean. Firstly, it is quiet common to have difference of opinion and attitudes between a couple but it makes no ground for doubts on this social and personal sanctum. He definitely misses his life before marriage it seems. And its something which all of us do particularly if it was seemingly the best time of ur life. But ignoring the partener is in no way a justification to achieve those ends. Giving each other some respectful space is very much a part of marital life and handling each others expectations requires a lot of effort at a personal level too. Both of u need to strengthen ur vows and rethink about ur priorities here. Consulting a psychiatrist / counsellor can do the trick for u guys. So feel free to communicate, consult and sort out this 'left out' feeling from ur conscience. Always welcome for consultation at ur convenient hours. Dr Diwakar Sharma (the mind tree) R-274, G. K -1, New Delhi - 48