Hi... Please elaborate more on what do you mean by “Win her back"? How is the divorce mutual when you still feel like winning her back?
We need to understand the circumstances and reasons leading to the divorce and the present decision/resolve of both parties involved.
If one person has made up their mind on divorce, it is highly unlikely to change their mind. But if there is any room left for reconciliation, Marital Counselling/Couple Therapy can help you both a lot.
In case, the other person is unwilling to go into marital counselling, you can start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist alone. But your reasons should be clear, psychotherapy/counselling is not meant to change or manipulate other people/situations. It meant to help the person taking Counselling to change their cognitions, emotions, and behaviours to adjust better in their environment and to learn necessary skills to deal with their issues.
Next Steps
Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist, jointly or individually.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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