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Mental stress anxity.
Hi, I want to ask for my friend. She is beautiful self dependent. She got divorced before 5 year nd she is single not remarry again. She is in a relationship with a guy who is married. And always problems occur in there life. Guy is very possessive nd narrow mind somewhere in her concern. She always try to made him comfortable by her 100% efforts. She does always as he say but sometimes somewhere she got failed, some instances of her past life came in front of him and in process of hiding the fact she told him another lie. And he caught that she lies. After that the cross check she get so depressed and suffer pain of being lonely ness. If she not hides she is wrong if she hides she is wrong. So in this case what she does to make there relationship happy nd live. Coz she is serious for him and the guy is also. But because of this she always caught wrong but she is not wrong. Help her for overcome the stress. Pls suggest me for helping her.
Hi there,
The situation u describe is a very peculiar one. Your 'friend' needs to understand one thing for a fact that human emotions don't stay the same for anyone as time moves on...So wat ever 'she' said to save him from taking otherwise and den suffering emotionally, is only reflecting how mechanical it is where he can't understand 'her' intention behind it. Also societal barrier or atleast a perception of one is a consideration for him.... relationship meant for lifetime need to progress gradually from just love and attraction.... So when u r planning to settle down again with a married man... . remember the Emotions can change and he is breaking a marriage for making one (if he does dat).... Also if things settle down somehow all that has already happened in this relationship can't be changed.... And it wil always resurface in future. Such relationships are more toxic than pleasurable.
Next Steps
'She' shud consider taking sometime off from this relationship and try to analyse 'her' life.. where it started and how it's going... Remind 'her' that 'she' is not alone if 'she' has 'her' and own self. And if 'she' thinks it's too much too handle then facilitate 'her' to visit a psychiatrist /psychotherapist. 'she' needs guidance and help.
Hope this helps 'her'
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P. S. I guess u will understand why the quotes were used.... Plz take care
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