Hi, I'm writing this out of sheer desperation and not knowing what to do or whom to talk too. Im married since 2.5 years and me and my wife have literally no sex life. We fought a lot. Our way of upbringing are very different. Her family is very scared about everything and mines exact opposite. We fight a lot on multiple things be it daily chores or be it likes or dislikes. We met for 3 months before marriage happened. Fights have gone to an extent where both are harming each other physically. The anger has gone beyond boundaries. We both have tried multiple times to not to feel angry with each other but it just doesn't work. Eg - if she has office commitment, I have the same..and if we ask for tiffin service she doesn't want that, ordering for food the answer is no and I never ask her to make food for me as she gets tired. But she herself makes, does office work and then cribs and gets angry, bangs the office keyboard and what not and blames me for it. Don't know what needs to be done