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It seems to be post partum harmonal changes which can also induce psychological issues. It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine if required.

First of all according to my understanding you are thinking that you are in rut and you want to get out of rut . It is my hunch your wife would not be ready for counseling but you  can ask her for counseling. If she doesn't make her mind in that case you can go for counselling first and get out of rut  without emotionally disturbing youself . You wud be able to make better decisions if you would not make yourself disturb about your wife behaviour and what is happening in your life . Most time we have three options 1.tolerating with disturbance 2.tolerating without disturbance 3.leave situation. Now you are tolerating situation with disturbance. So go for counseling and learn  how to tolerate the situation without disturbance or leave the situation.

Hi dear, You both need counseling sessions. Try to communicate with your wife openly about your thoughts. Consult for proper guidance.

It's clear that there are multiple issues at play here, including financial disagreements, differing views on household responsibilities, and strained family relationships. Here are some suggestions that might help you address these challenges: Open Communication: Talk Honestly: Have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Clearly express your concerns and feelings without blaming or accusing her. Make sure she understands your perspective. Active Listening: Listen to her side of the story as well. Understanding her concerns and motivations can help both of you find common ground. Seek Compromise: Financial Planning: Consider creating a budget together. Discuss your financial goals, and decide together how to allocate money for expenses, savings, and personal spending. Shared Responsibilities: It's important to share household and childcare responsibilities. Discuss and agree on a fair division of labor that works for both of you.

Hi, Hi, Consult a Marriage counsellor, counselling will benefit to strengthen your relationship and feel more connected and bonded with one another to be able to grow individually and together as a couple. It can improve communication skills, help understand each other better, you learn how to make a better team in your marriage, and increase parenting skills. Counselling gives both of you access to meaningful insight and tools to help make communication more effective and compassionate so your’ll can resolve your issues in a positive healthy manner. Both of you will understand the dynamics of your differences and communicate effectively to enable resolution.

Hi, Consult a psychologist for counseling sessions.Marriage counseling is necessary.

I can understand your concerns. It is difficult to say whether it is a phase and will it change with time. What I can understand though is that there is lack of clarity regarding shared roles and responsibilities in the marriage. It seems like both of you come with very different expectations from a partner. It is important to come to a common ground and develop a shared understanding in a marriage

Hi there, i understand your issue completely and how you are going through this situation. With time you will feel more burdened this is the right time to connect. There are multiplicity of factors involved in your scenario. Counselling will help you to ackle and make wise decisions for your future.

It sounds like you're facing a complex and challenging situation in your marriage. Open and honest communication is key. Try to have a calm conversation with your wife about your feelings and concerns. Understand each other's perspectives and priorities. Consider couples counseling to help mediate these discussions and improve communication. A neutral third party can provide valuable insights. Discuss the division of household responsibilities and finances openly, working towards a solution that feels fair and equitable for both of you. Addressing conflicts and differences with empathy and understanding can help improve your relationship. Remember, change takes time, but working together can lead to a healthier, happier marriage.

Hello. It sounds like you’re facing a lot of distress in your relationship with your wife. It’s vital that you both attend marriage counselling. It will help you both to communicate openly and honestly in a manner which doesn’t demean the other person. You will feel heard and you will know better of what decisions to make and how! Consult a mental health professional soon

Couple counseling is required

Hello, Sorry to know you are feeling this way. I hope you both have planned the baby and discussed the financial responsibilities that come with the baby, if not, please sit down and do it now (if you both cannot come to a consensus, seek couple counselling). If you are unable to afford house help or nanny, please convey that honestly to your wife. There should not be any assumed responsibility (that you have to earn and she has to take care of the child). If she is capable enough to earn and support the lifestyle, she can opt to work and you can be a full time dad at home, provided her earning is sufficient for you 3. If not so, you will have to continue working and she has to take care of the child at home. Since taking care of an infant is also a full time job and an all day long job, you can hire part time help, if even that seems difficult and unaffordable, please seek help from either of your parents. The work needs be balanced and you both need to discuss that with each other. If there are certain things you cannot afford, please explain it to her honestly. You are not doing any of it intentionally, hire help if you can afford I would suggest and she can also work but your wife also needs to be supporting. Communicate honestly. Also, understand why your wife is feeling the need of a certain lifestyle (society also adds pressure, sometimes leading us to have unrealistic demands).