Working full time with a toddler in a nuclear family setup gets very taxing. Its a situation where too many things needs to be handled. The entire situation gets overwhelming and even iur general mood, reactions and ability to perceive others perspective gets distorted. Take some time off. Spend time and enjoy the moments with your husband and rejoice monents with the baby. When both of u have relaxed and de stressed yourselves talk to each other about the diff responsibilities you need to divide among each other. MNy times its the way we communicate that hinders our communication. Talk in a manner where you r not offending the other but are fivjng them your aspect of the story.
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Things will be fine in sometime, in no time your child will become more independent and would not be so dependant on u dr his basic needs. Thus enjoy the time that you can now with your toddler n husband.