The best lubricant is water. It is most sperm friendly. All other lubricants are more harmful or less harmful for the sperm.
I suggest you should consult a Gynaecologist in your area so that any anatomical abnormality (if any) can be found and given treatment. Three years is a long period to learn the technique of proper sexual relationships.
Answered2022-10-23 02:35:21
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