Hi Here problem is not what she wants or comparing with ex.problem is what you think  want and expect.How much comfortable are you with yourself,image and esteem.Think and decide and then discuss with your partner in a transparent manner.

Hi,l think you should not be in a hurry to make a decision about such things.An open communication with your partner could help you get a clear vision.Consult a psychologist for professional help

Need more information. Consult psychotherapist  for counseling sessions

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Honestly need to understand more about what she says to you and you know where her mindset is coming from. It could be both cannot comment. It’s too soon. Maybe you can connect with me. We can discuss it in detail and come to a conclusion. Whatever it is too much pushing of something is, not beneficial or great for the person, so if you don’t feel like that, you can you know say to her, and also we can discuss it so let me know. Let’s connect.

It's not a complete description.connect with the psychologist to resolve it

You both need counseling sessions to correct your perception and decision making skills. You need an expert Psychologist.

It looks like a concern. Sometimes there is an obsession also for body image issues.it might be not with you but the issue might be with her

It's understandable to feel sensitive about your partner's comments regarding physique, especially if they mention their ex-partner's appearance. While it's natural for individuals to have preferences, it's important to address any feelings of comparison or inadequacy that may arise from these conversations.

One approach you could try is writing down your thoughts and feelings on this matter to gain a better understanding of what you truly feel. This can help you clarify your feelings and prepare for a constructive conversation with your partner. When you're ready, try to approach the conversation with your partner in a neutral and non-confrontational manner. Express your feelings honestly and openly, letting her know how her comments have made you feel. This can help create a stronger connection between the two of you and allow for a better understanding of each other's perspectives. It's possible that your partner is coming from a place of concern and appreciation for your well-being, rather than making a direct comparison to her ex-partner. However, it's important to communicate openly to ensure that both of you are on the same page and that your feelings are being respected.