In laws not handling my baby properly

2021-01-30 15:00:12
I have 14 month daughter.My mom in law is schizophrenic patient.She doesn't even wash hand after toilet.if i ask to do so before touching my baby she fight with me.She also lie a lot.sh will pee anywhere and wipe using my baby clothes secretly.she behaves too bad with me. I clean her pee and poop but i am treated like maid. My father in law is no less. He once rounded earphone wire around baby neck. We are on third floor, he takes my baby very near to railing to show down garden. He also uses knives, scissors to cut her hair while playing. My baby is walking and is very active. She climbs on chair then of dining.whenever i ask him not to take risk like this his ego gets hurt and he is like i should never instruct him as i am daughter in law. My husband is very supportive. My Father in law always shouts so bad on my husband since childhood that my husband is still scared of him. I did love marriage and they have never accepted me.that was okay.But i can't sacrifice my baby
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You're concerned about your little one, every mother does so...think some suitable alternatives from your position. Can you take help from neighbors during awful situation! Can you take up a job and keep your child in daycare center!
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try to make some family moments...altogether.  now a days people find joy in making YouTube videos to share happy moments with in laws...create happy moments
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Answered2021-02-03 15:25:15

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I understand this might be difficult and stressful for you and your husband and daughter. As others on this thread have suggested, seek out professional help. There are many options available for dealing with people with chronic mental health problems. With discussion, you can identify what works best with you and your family. Discussion about parenting stratgies might also help, as your daughter is growing up and trying to make sense of things happening around.
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reach out to me or other professionals to discuss suitable options for moving forward

Answered2021-01-31 06:32:58

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I understand the situation you are going through. I suggest you both as a couple to seek out a professional support.. Marriage Counselling might give some clarity to both of you..
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You can reach me by using the link given below for more details :- https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir

Answered2021-02-02 02:08:02

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You have IPR issues with in laws, mother in law in psychiatric patient and father in law is also having issues.you need to have individual and family counselling session
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Please book session with Dr R K Suri
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Avoid confrontation with in-laws

Answered2021-01-30 15:52:13

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