I am student studying for first year in the college my problem is that I am not having presence of mind at the time it's needed. Last time when I went to my native place for vacation and when I was returning me and my decided to return together but the thing is one of my friend got into the train at a station before mine and when I got into the train I just sat at a place I got because of the huge rush I did not sit with her that hurted her a lot because she was all alone.