To take a decision u must be remind some point that-
1.reaction others after that decision
2.long tern effects of that decision in ur life,ur families life and ur would be husband's life.
3.courage to holdnur decision on pressure
4.if decision is not favor of ur parents then ready for the after effects.
Next Steps
u must consult a psychologist Online or offline to discuss this matter seriously and after that u can decide ur own what is right and whatbis wrong for u and ur family.