Nobody knows you better than your own self. It will be very difficult for you to realise but the sooner you do will be better for you.
People who love to talk will always talk . The easiest thing for people to do is to give advice and to back bite.
There is nothing new in this social phenomenon.
What you need to do is , to try to gradually to just block those people from your life and try to shut all communications with anyone even remotely trying to pull you down.
You’re much better than them . Remember that.
Next Steps
Shrug it off and walk forward bravely , & keep moving forward, there is no stopping , all these words can’t limit your progress in life.
Health Tips
Try meeting a counsellor / mentor either in person or on telephone to get better guidance .