Hi Your worry is completely valid your boyfriend is struggling emotionally and physically, but the weight of his stress is being carried by you, and that is becoming unsafe. His chest pain, headaches, breathing issues, and anxiety show that his nervous system is overloaded, and he genuinely needs professional help. But his expectations from you remembering every detail, behaving exactly how he wants, fulfilling his emotional needs perfectly are not things any partner can realistically do. This can be overwhelming In therapy, we would focus on helping you separate your role from his responsibility, rebuild boundaries, and understand what a safe and respectful relationship should look like. Supporting him cannot come at the cost of your safety or emotional wellbeing. He needs treatment but you need protection, clarity, and emotional grounding too. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

Hi.. will need further history regarding the same to advise appropriately. Counseling can help. Consult online. Alternatively you can search google for Dr Shailaja Bandla, Psychiatrist for contact info