hi there, i have just aquainted myself with ur query. Urs is a very personal and specific problem. its very obvious for someone u give attention to develop feelings. And there is not one correct way to deal with it. one may sound more practical and doable than others. But anyway now all u have to do first is introspect becos u really care for this peraon anf dont want her to feel bad ....so u have to really be sure about whether u want to stick to ur last response or change it. if u wish to stick to ur last response all u need a mssg to clear the air..may be she confused some of ur gesture.. just listen to her first and then speak ur mind...dont leave any confusion at this point... and if u want to change ur response then nobody needs to tell u anything ...u know it already... so act before u loose an important person to lack of communication and misunderstanding. i hope this helps u but feel free to raise any further queries. thank u

Go and tell her how you are feeling. if both of you agree it is love towards each other, then continue the relationship where it halted and live happily ever after.

hello. this is not a relationship counsellor. if you have a health related query, we could help you. for your problem take your friend for a good dinner and speak how you feel. regards