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I am facing issues because of my long distance relationship with girl who's dominating extrovert manipulative(maybe ) i think i am attached to her i am little soft in nature that i can't leave but i don't feel good in relationship now its 1 year now
In starting i was in love and she also i also neglacted dominating manipulative behaviour since start of relation but after around 6 months i started to doubt on her character the things that she told me about her past gave me hint that she is kind of flirty girl
My mind turned suspious regarding her character
This long distance relation started because of her family sent marriage purposal for me and she started talking to me by herself and i also started to take interest in her and fell in love but now you know the situation i didn't have any serious relation before this
And one important thing i have good belief in astrology and i asked astrologer about and they told the girl is over sexual and have multiple affairs help i want to leave
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A relationship is only good if both parties are fully enjoying it. If even one party is not happy the relationship will not last long. And so if you are not happy u can simply leave the relationship no matter what the other person feels or says. No one can tie u to a relationship that u don’t want.
Do not fall into prey into the hands of astrologers. No one can predict anything about anyone. Astrologer saying something against your partner should not be the reason to leave. However U shud leave if u r not happy.
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Astrologer predictions shud not be the basis of deciding about a relationship. Often these predictions are based on general assumptions about what info u give to them. These r highly generic and applicable to all. So don’t b fooled by them.
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Hi thanks for approaching dear, I am sharing my view, first with a non judgemental relaxed mindset kindly try to search or inquire the reason within yourself exactly what is holding you in this relationship what is that learning you can take from the current relationship, also remember when you do something out of love, you do it without any idea of any return. It is not a bargain -you do it because you are happy doing it, the other is not obliged.
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In your long-distance relationship, it's essential to listen to your feelings and trust your instincts. If you're feeling unhappy and doubtful about your partner's behavior, addressing those concerns with open communication is crucial. Don't solely rely on astrological predictions; instead, focus on your emotions and experiences. Take some time for self-reflection and consider what you truly want and need in a relationship. If you're uncomfortable or unhappy, it might be worth considering whether this relationship is right for you.
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Seeking advice from friends or a professional counselor can be helpful in gaining perspective and making decisions that are right for you. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your well-being and walk away from a relationship that doesn't feel fulfilling. You deserve to be in a relationship that brings you happiness and mutual respect.
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If you feel that she is probably manipulative and dominating which you are not able to handle emotionally and don't feel good about it, then how can you spend your whole life with her? Or it might be your perception only. Being extrovert is not a bad quality. No one can dominate anyone if one doesn't allow. I suggest that you Talk to her openly and see how does she react, that will be your answer. Dialogue is the key in any relationship and to get to know about the other person in a better way. Being soft is a good quality, but it doesn't mean that the other person take it for granted and take advantage of it. No relationship works if respect is missing in it.
Don't label anyone on the basis of astrology.
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Meet a relationship counsellor for better understanding of relationship.
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Hi dear,
According to your given information, you know that this girl is not the one for you. And because you both have been dating for quite a long time, you have developed feelings for her and attachment. You should tell her feelings and try to stay focused on your career. If you know that she is not the one, then you should tell her this thing and move on in life. For better guidance, consult online. For calming down your mind, practice meditation.
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Hi... Please seek Interpersonal Relationship Counselling or Pre-Marital Counselling to address your issues. Based on what you have shared above, I believe you are very much aware of the fact that she is not the right person for you, but you are unable to make a decision because of the attachment you have developed over a period of time. You need to discuss and reflect back in a therapeutic setting to have a clearer picture of what you exactly want and how to move forward.
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