Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help. I can understand her situation . They both need to go for a marriage counseling. If there is a conflict which they can't solve, it always good to ask for help and a neutral person like a counselor can help here. Advice them. If they can't go together, at least the wife can take this session to manage the suitation better and avoid going into any emotional issues. Feel free to reach out to me online or directly for further evaluation.