Hi
You may have developed lactose intolerance to milk and milk products..
So it's better to avoid such group of foods and can have an alternative to it for example soya milk , soy paneer ( Tofu ) , almond milk etc...inorder to avoid such irritations...
And cow's milk may have that property of causing one to become allergic, and other gut disturbances along with fatigue , anxiety and tiredness etc...this all can be due to allergy issues and other lactose intolerance problems...
Next Steps
please consult any doctor and discuss your issues for better diagnosis and advise..
thankyou