Dear Practo User, What you are experiencing is emotionally difficult, but it is also a very common situation in couples dealing with long-term stress, hormonal imbalance, work pressure, fatigue, and reduced emotional connection. From your description, it seems your wife is already physically and mentally exhausted due to prolonged irregular periods and hormonal issues. When someone is constantly tired, intimacy often becomes emotionally stressful rather than natural, even if the love and care are still present. At the same time, your feelings of loneliness, frustration, and emotional deprivation are also valid. Suppressing those feelings for too long can lead to irritation, overthinking, frequent fights, and emotional distance between partners. From your side, try focusing on these points: • Avoid turning intimacy into pressure or expectation for some time • Support her emotionally without repeatedly discussing performance or frequency • Spend quality time together outside of work and health discussions • Appreciate small emotional efforts instead of focusing only on physical intimacy • Continue your self-growth activities, exercise, hobbies, and stress management • Maintain calm communication instead of discussing concerns during arguments Since both of you work in IT, stress, screen time, irregular sleep, and mental burnout can also significantly affect mood, hormones, patience, and relationship bonding. Most importantly, do not start believing that the relationship is “finished” because intimacy has reduced temporarily. Many couples go through such phases during health or hormonal struggles. Sometimes relationship counseling or couple counseling alongside medical treatment can help both partners reconnect emotionally and reduce misunderstandings. This phase should be approached as a “shared health challenge” instead of “one partner failing the other.” Patience, emotional safety, and proper treatment together usually bring much better long-term results.

It seems to be post partum psychological changes leading to physical and harmonal changes. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery. You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

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U both need proper counselling.. To enjoy sexual activity.. To enjoy happy married life completely

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Namastey Your situation reflects two parallel issues—your wife’s ongoing gynecological concern (likely abnormal uterine bleeding related to Hormonal imbalance) and the resulting strain on your emotional and intimate relationship. Prolonged bleeding (up to 15 days/month) can lead to significant fatigue, low energy, irritability, and reduced libido. From a medical and psychological perspective, her reduced interest in intimacy is not unwillingness, but a consequence of physical exhaustion and hormonal disturbance. At the same time, your feeling of deprivation is also valid. The key here is to shift from a “performance expectation” mindset to a supportive partnership approach, where intimacy temporarily takes a broader meaning—emotional closeness, reassurance, and patience—until her health stabilizes.