Hello. There seems to be a lot of hurt and bad memories in her mind . Best option is to take her to a clinical Psychologist and let her open up her issues . She needs Counseling and an ear to listen to what she feels patiently . Do not delay . Such situations are to be dealt with at earlier stages before it gets worse .
Next Steps
Patient is sick . Understand that and don't judge .!make the patient understand that professional help is needed.
Health Tips
Don't argue or try to explain too much . When the frame of mind is not in place , all words sound like abuse and advises are looked upon as curses