Hello dear, I can empathize with you...see you need to understand that no one should force anyone in a relationship.. otherwise it would not be satisfactory one..right..if possible try to talk to her straightforward about your concern..if she realizes it's great..if not ..then plan to move on..As you have full right to be happy and peace of mind should be your priority...As these are years also to build up your career..right... Consult on direct Consult option..you can reach us anytime.. Dr Srikant Sharma Anandam Psychiatry Centre New Delhi