What you are experiencing is close interaction with a “control Freak” It is bit difficult to give you any advice here. But these type of guys and the septic environment they create can be demolished by some thing called “ shock therapy”. But it can be done only under the guidance of a expert family Psychologist .
So contact a Psychologist yourself. Though your husband needs therapy , he is unlikely to agree ,to go for therapy. Do not delay , otherwise , the dictatorial tendencies would become more stifling , not only for you but would stunt the growth of your children.
Answered2019-02-14 14:29:42
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