Hello I can imagine it must be so difficult for you. Talk to him about how you feel about the whole situation. Try to convince him to see.a psychiatrist for evaluation and Treatment . treatment of addiction consists of medications as well as psychological therapy. Encourage your spouse and make sure that he knows that you are there to support him during the process. As a partner, you need support as well. Talk to someone who is close to you, share how you feel with your family / friends or with a professional. Feel free to contact me through practo. Regards Dr Ankita Mishra

I think, you both need to visit a psychologist cum Marriage Counselor in your city personally and actually find out what you both wanted.