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Kindly consult psychotherapist

Hi It sounds like you and your wife have different expectations from the marriage, which is causing frequent conflicts and emotional distance. Your frustration and her feeling of disrespect are signs that both of you are not feeling heard or valued in the relationship. Avoiding arguments by stopping communication may temporarily prevent fights, but in the long run, it creates more emotional distance and resentment. To rebuild understanding and intimacy, you both need to work on effective communication and mutual compromise. Instead of focusing on what she is not doing, try expressing your needs in a non-blaming, open manner. For example, instead of saying “You don’t care for my parents,” say “It would mean a lot to me if you showed warmth towards my parents, just like you do with our child.” Similarly, discuss intimacy issues openly—make sure both of you feel comfortable and emotionally connected, as physical attraction often comes from emotional closeness. Since she finds it difficult to understand your perspective, a marriage counselor can help mediate these discussions and create a healthy balance in your expectations. If you want to take online therapy sessions, connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five. Therapy can help both of you rebuild trust, improve communication, and strengthen your marriage.

Hi, Improving your relationship with your wife will require open communication, empathy, and a willingness to understand each other’s perspectives. Start by choosing a calm moment to discuss your feelings without placing blame; use "I" statements to express how her actions affect you. For example, say “I feel unhappy when there is a lack of affection or support” instead of critiquing her behavior directly. Encourage her to share her feelings as well, fostering a two-way dialogue. Additionally, consider proposing a “date night” to reconnect and enjoy each other’s company without the stress of daily life. Engaging in activities you both enjoy can help rebuild intimacy. It might also be beneficial to attend couples counseling, where a neutral party can help facilitate discussions. Approach this process with patience and a genuine desire to understand each other’s needs, as it will take time to improve your relationship.

Connect for couple counseling

Hi It might be difficult at times to understand and expect from the relationship. For better understanding what and where to work on your relationship you can opt for couple counselling

Would suggest both of you to consult /Visit a Marriage Counselor to understand yourself better and to understand each other better..

Hi Couples have such differences. Any two people involved in a relationship or friendship will have different opinions. It’s is necessary to listen and respect each other’s opinion. Not talking to her will lead to piled up issues which would occur again and again during the arguments. She too may be going through emotional distress and expects you to respect her opinions and expectations. Marriage is all about fulfilling each other expectations. Have an open communication with her in a peace time. Be open to her thoughts and feelings. It can’t be done only one way. If you want to be listened, you would have to initiate to listen to her first. Discuss your opinions rather than accusing each other. Physical intimacy is again very important. Ask her about her fantasies, and she too will reciprocate the same way. If you wanted to be treated a certain way, it’s you who has to take the first step. Eg- if you want her to take care of your parents, you would have to initiate to take care of her family. This way she would acknowledge your efforts and will do the same. Accusation and saying that”you don’t do it” will only make her defensive and find more negatives in you. That’s like playing tit for tat and you guys will land up hating each other more.

It sounds like you and your wife are experiencing a cycle of unmet expectations, frustration, and emotional distance. Relationships thrive on communication, mutual understanding, and emotional connection, and it’s good that you want to improve things rather than give up.