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Ok so i turned 27 in Feb.My not so boyfriend is dating someone else since mid October!! He was still friends with me until 16th feb(my bday) he broke up with me at least a dozen times in the last 2.5 years. I kind of get, this is too big to be free question. But I can't think of anything else. My mom thinks getting help is trying to be cool.Counseling I mean, too modern n not something I need. Maybe I don't. Idk. Oh and I have had an abortion. Yeah. Same guy. March 2020,just before lockdown. My mom or family obviously does not know about it. Nor I am ever going to tell them. Ever. I will never be okay with what I have done. the pain was excruciating. Beyond imagination. I love him.. So i wanted to keep the baby, he didn't let me. N i guess I couldn't keep it coz India n marriages. N my mom is behind my life to get me married. I don't want to. I can't marry just anyone. I can't move on, so I shouldn't marry anyone. I don't want to eat a bunch of medicines n get super fat n too much acne
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Too much to handle at a time..... Problems flocking at you.... As your mom told you, you need help which is not possible to suggest to relax in writing here....
Book an appointment with me, Iam sure will sort out all your problems one by one....
Cannot promise whether to make him love you again but from my end will surely try....
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Hi first of all thanks for reaching out . That’s the first step of healing . I am getting the pictures that you are facing multiple issues at same time . I am sorry to hear that you are going through difficult times with respect to emotionally and physically . Break ups are always hard . It looks like you are all alone and have no one to talk to. It is always helpful if you can talk to someone and process your thoughts and feelings . If you have some one whom you can trust please talk to them . Or you can book an appointment with me via Practo . I know lot of prejudice are there with counselling . You can always have a session and decide for yourself . Hope this help. Take care.
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Book appointment @ Mili Chakraborty
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Hello, I empathize with you for all the unpredictable situations which you are in. Appreciate your courage to open up your situation on a professional platform. And I believe you will be able to handle the future also with same courage with out guilt and fear dominating you. Proper analysis of the situation and taking mindful decisions will help you to come out of this crisis successfully.
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Suggest you to reach out for support.
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It is unfortunate that so many things had happened in your life..
I don't think that we can force someone to love us.
At the same time, it does not make sense to sacrifice our life as if some miracle will happen..
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It is better to seek a professional support
I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor..
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For more details and clarity you can connect with me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Hello there! I appreciate your courage to come out and address the issue in hand so frankly. A lot has happened while you were in the relationship with the guy. Bottling up your emotions would not be a healthy practice. Try venting out your emotions in a productive way.
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consult a mental health professional as earliest as you can.
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It takes a lot of courage to share what you have been going through.
Though your relationship reflected many red flags.
Counselling is not modern but it helps you to do mind management along with catharsis.
You have a lot inside and you need to declutter it with a professional without being judged.
Please don’t forget to show compassion to your self in the whole process.
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Counselling will definitely help you get direction and clarity on various aspects.
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You can book online or in clinic session with me on Practo : Neha Ravichandran
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