Hi I am sorry to hear that your mother is not well. How old is she? Does she have Medical problems like
diabetes or High blood pressure.
You described few things suspiciousness, possible memory loss(e.g. asking Who you are) . If she is older it suggests memory issues with paranoia. It needs further evaluation and treatment. Please consult a Psychiatrist as soon as possible.
Next Steps
consult a Psychiatrist
Health Tips
she is suffering. so be sympathetic. confrontation does not help.