Hi When someone you love expresses pain and helplessness, it’s natural for your body to react your chest hurting is your anxiety trying to protect you from a situation that feels completely out of your control. But right now, you’re carrying both your emotions and his, and that’s too heavy for one nervous system. His conflict is real, but his decisions and his circumstances are not your responsibility. What you can control is your own grounding: slow breathing, stepping away from the conversation when your body spikes, and reminding yourself that his pain is not a signal for you to collapse. Your anxiety is flaring because you’re emotionally fused with him your mind sees his distress as a threat to your emotional safety. The healthier step is to create even a small boundary: “I care for you, but I can’t carry this alone.” From there, bring the focus back to your regulation movement, grounding, and calming the body first. Only when your body settles will your mind stop spiraling. None of this makes your feelings invalid it just means you deserve stability that isn’t dependent on someone else’s crisis. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

Hi.. i understand it's painful, but both of you are adults. So you are free to choose your own life. If someone is not willing to stand up for themselves, then it's not worth fighting for them. Build your self worth and move on. Consult online for counseling. Alternatively you can search Dr Shailaja Bandla, Psychiatrist in google for contact info. All the best

It’s completely understandable that you’re feeling this pain so intensely. When someone we care about is caught between family pressure and their own feelings, it creates a lot of emotional distress for both sides. Right now, two things are happening: 1. You’re carrying his emotional burden, which is making your own anxiety worsen. 2. Your mind is treating this emotional pain like physical danger, which is why you feel chest tightness and discomfort. A few things I want you to keep in mind: 1. His family pressure is not something you can control. What you can control is how much of this responsibility you place on yourself. His choices and circumstances are not your fault. 2. Your anxiety symptoms are real and valid. Chest tightness, heaviness, and physical discomfort often happen when emotions overload the system. 3. Give yourself emotional boundaries. It’s okay to care for him, but not at the cost of your own wellbeing. Distance yourself slightly from the situation until you feel calmer. 4. Focus on grounding techniques: Slow deep breaths (4 seconds in, 6 seconds out) Splash cold water on your face Talk to someone you trust Avoid overthinking conversations or imagining future scenarios 5. Please monitor the chest pain. If it is persistent, severe, or associated with breathlessness, do get it evaluated to rule out physical causes. 6. Consider speaking to a mental health professional. Not because something is “wrong” with you, but because you deserve support during this emotionally heavy time. You are not responsible for fixing his situation, and you don’t have to suffer silently. With the right support, this anxiety will settle.

When some one ants some thing he or she will find a way Th at person needs therapy and under pressure marriage will spoil both their lives Also you need to know whether he ia really unhappy or he is seemingly unhappy ans triggering your abandonment wound U write what you want U can’t control what u can’t control