Please be determined and plan to come out of this marriage if feasible.Please consult a psychologist for further guidance

Both of you get consultation at same time. And counseling too

Hi there, Sad to hear about your relationship with your husband. Do talk about your problems with your family members and also his family and friends. He may have some under lying psychological problems. A detailed history and mental status examination is to be done for both the partners. Do contact a marriage counsellor and do take help from a mental health professional. You also take the help of a mental health professional for your depressive symptoms. Early intervention is always better.

Hello, Don't let yourself down and let someone torture you. You have every right to defend yourself and your child.