A sexual fantasy is not automatically good or bad just because you saw it in pornography. Sometimes pornography can introduce a person to a behavior they had never previously considered, and the brain may become curious about it. Having the thought or fantasy does not mean there is something wrong with you. What matters is whether it is consensual, safe, and whether you actually want it rather than feeling compelled to do it.
Next Steps
If you are referring to feces/âpottyâ as part of sexual activity, this carries significant hygiene and infection risks and is not something I would recommend practicing. If the urge feels repetitive or difficult to control, particularly if you feel distressed because of it, discuss it confidentially with a sexual-health professional or therapist. You can also take a break from pornography for a few weeks and see whether the urge reduces. Connect with the clinic at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5 for confidential guidance.
Health Tips
Don't feel guilty simply for having the fantasy. A thought is different from an action. Avoid copying potentially harmful things seen in pornography, as porn is entertainment rather than a guide to safe sexual practices. Focus on mutually comfortable, consensual intimacy with your partner. Thank you