You both need couple counseling sessions asap to correct your feelings and thoughts. It will help you to improve decision making skills. You need an expert Psychologist, who is a good homeopathic physician.

Hi, Consult to resolve issues. hypnotherapy helps to resolve sexual issues easily. The solution you are giving to this should be mutual & not one sided. take care

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Kindly visit a sexologist

Hi, Consult a psychologist for professional help

Hello, Penis size does not really matter for sexual pleasure and 4 inches is normal size. You need sex counseling sessions to deal with your issue in a better way. Because after reading your Question It seems that you have a lack of knowledge to satisfy your partner and you only know the satisfaction is only coming by penetration and that is totally wrong.There are more different methods like foreplay, clitoris stimulation, Oral and many more things. You should book an online appointment with me for further assistance. Because I need to know about your issue in depth to give you a better way to deal with your issue.

Hi.. please connect with sexologist

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Consult a sexologist first.. After that, I would suggest both of you to consult a Marriage Counselor..

I can see this is a tricky situation for you. It's totally normal to have concerns, but remember, sex isn't just about size. Consider checking out Instagram pages like Seema Anand's – they share great insights into different aspects of sexuality. Open communication is key. Have an honest chat with your wife about your feelings and suggest visiting a sex therapist together. Exploring this together with a counsellor's help can be a positive step in finding a solution that works for both of you and strengthens your relationship

Hi, Whatever information is given above looks like a bunch of different issues, but all of them are stemming from a basic trigger which is anxiety, that symptom is common in every issue.

Any marriage can go through different levels of libido, many times such problems are not only to do with your organ size, but it is also at times the closeness and understanding about each other's needs in physical Intimacy. Best of luck.

Penis of the size that you are speaking about does not matter because sex is not just about the size of the penis. Foreplay, erotic communication, various sexual stimulation methods, positions, mutual efforts to stimulate each other etc. can create great sexual satisfactions for both. But, behind many sexual inadequacies are issues like the male performance anxiety (becoming anxious thinking that one is unlikely to satisfy his partner) which leads to erection issues, contemptuous attitude from the female or even the medical condition of erectile dysfunction. You need to address these with help from professionals like a psychologist, sexologist, psychiatrist, urologist etc. Out of these, the psychologist may help you in the long term. Now about you wanting your wife to have sex with others on which you want to know how to convince her. This may appear to you good as a fantasy now. However, I feel it has the potential to destroy your marriage significantly.