I have been married for one and half year now but I am unable to have intercourse with my partner yet. We have tried multiple times but I lack any sex drive and get scared and depressed thinking about it. My partner has been patient but we have not been able to find a solution. Visited a counselor in past who gave me anti depressants but that didn't help much. I am not sure if it's the physical pain or the mental block. I am not even sure which doctor to visit, a gyanec or a psychologist. Please advice the next step.