Thanks for reaching out for help. A little more clarity on your situation would help. Does your son think you and your wife did not give the educational freedom he wanted? Being stuck to his computer might be his way of dealing with underlying mental tension. Please take an online appointment with me to talk about how you can make this a comfortable situation for all of you .
Next Steps
With the guidance from a counselling psychologist like myself, you can start talking with your son about how both of you can understand and accept each other.
Health Tips
Whatever be the reason for his anger and subsequent behaviour, give him the benefit of the doubt and talk openly with him. Sharing of deep felt thoughts can remove all anger and mental blocks.