What do you want to gain out of hurting her? A revenge for your damaged reputation?
If we think about it, your reputation goes for a real damage when you ‘do’ wrong things. Not when a gossip goes out about you. So, divert your attention from the gossip and hurting her to doing right things for yourself and for others.
Convert yourself from one who is people-focused to one who is objective-focused!
Next Steps
Divert attention. Seek Counselling if help needed with the same!
Health Tips
Revenge won’t undo your perceived damage!