Remember what would your friends say, they have right to say what they want to say , there is no legal law according to which they can't say  anything  . We have no control on what your friends would say but you have only control on your thinking ( what would you say to yourself when your friends would say something about you ?) don't attach your worth on what they can say, your value as human doesn't not depend on what they think about you.

It is natural to have a positive or negative attitude. We are born with both attitudes. However our life experiences often bend us towards one of these attitudes. I'm not sure what you need to deal with. You may want to elaborate your post

Hi,if you think that this   attitude is causing stress and anxiety you can consult a psychologist for professional help

Everyone has both attitude..but what attitude you are feeding more becomes the result or output.. connect for more clarity

Consult a psychological Counselor for a therapy to overcome this issue..

It sounds like you're wondering about whether you tend to have a positive or negative attitude and how it relates to what your friends might say. If I got that right, it's a thoughtful question. Our attitude can indeed be influenced by the opinions of those around us. It's essential to be self-aware and understand the impact of others' views on your attitude. If you find that your attitude is a source of struggle, it might be beneficial to explore this further with a counselor. They can provide valuable insights and strategies to help you develop a more positive and healthy outlook on life.

Dear concerned, these are natural phenomena of mind. Kindly work on your fears and limiting beliefs