Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Relationships issues is the major challenge to handle among spouse and I can understand your suitation very well.
Any advice here won't help your suitation, until a detailed understanding about the history and current suitation are discussed.
Would recommend you to take a marriage counseling support to figure out the the ways to handle your problem.
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