Hi good afternoon Thnxs for your question Don't worry I think fear of pain makes ur pelvic muscle in contraction status that may give more pain if at that penis try to penetratre u. So u need good long foreplay that make ur vagina so wet and sticky than devert ur mind in other activities and don't think regarding pain while penis penetration. Allow penis to enter into ur vagina slowly. Use online consultation with me for further advise. If u need more ideas Long foreplay is good therapy