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Sexual desire
I am 27 years old. We didn't have sex until three months after we got married because I was scared about it. We tried a lot of time, but it was very difficult for me to insert it and it was very painful, so I kept pushing him away.I had a love marriage. I used to get some lubrication when I made love. But now it doesn't happen. I got pregnant because we had sex in pain and now I have an 11-month-old baby. Even after I delivered, I haven't had sex yet. It hurts a lot if we try to penetrate.After that i tried to have sex but I didn't feel anything except pain. I didn't have any sexual desire.
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●𝗬𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗧𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 .
●𝗩𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗰
●𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗺𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 1.5 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗳.
●𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁.
●𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝗿𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀.
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Very common problem in yound married couples. I suggest you visit psychiatrist/sexologist for this problem as a couple.
This problem even don't require any medication. Just guidance and counselling will work.
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Thank you for sharing your experience. What you're going through is more common than you might think, and it's important to know that help is available. Pain during intercourse, lack of desire, and reduced lubrication can happen due to both physical and emotional factors—especially after a difficult first experience and childbirth.
I strongly recommend consulting a gynecologist to rule out any physical causes such as vaginismus, hormonal changes, or scarring. In addition, seeing a sexologist or counselor trained in sexual health can be very helpful in addressing the emotional and psychological aspects.
Please don’t hesitate to seek support. With the right care, these issues are treatable, and a fulfilling, pain-free sexual life is possible.
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