I broke up with my ex girlfriend 2 years ago and i still have not gotten over her. I cry alot,. Over a year ago she and i decided to be friends, and have continued to become good friends. She calls me everyday for 20 mins and then vanishes the whole day. She talks to other guys, flirts with them, and went on a date a few days back. I cant deal with the fact and it is causing me severe chest pains, insomnia and headaches. I hope this isnt the first time youre getting a problem like this.