Hi... You are in a dilemma because you are facing an approach- avoidance conflict. On one hand you don't want to let go your own happiness, that you believe lies in being in that relationship. And on the other hand you want to keep your parents approval and acceptance of this relationship as it matters to you a lot. There are no right and wrong choices in such scenarios. You just need to choose what matters to you the most and what decision you will be able to defend for a longer period of time. Also, if this amounts to getting married, it will be better to look at it in terms of what kind of life you want to live rather than thinking it in terms of a moral conflict.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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