Hi, As you know, she is rejecting you for 4 months. Now its time for you to act on it. Few steps you can to identify your problems: (1) Need to identify the reason for rejection (2) Understand whether the problem can be resolved or not. If it can be resolved, speak to her or move on (3) Analyze yourself what went wrong and work on those areas to improve to feel better If you need help, talk to psychologist

Hi, I can understand your pain. You are giving it time but you still feel miserable. For how long did your relation last? What was the reason for the separation?

As you engage with the world, the feedback that you receive for your actions may not be within your control, but how you deal with it makes all the difference. Better still, if you could use the learnings from your experiences for your own evolution. Every time you experience thoughts of what happened in the past, rather than labeling and interpreting it as rejection, try to see it from the perspective of your friend who might have had an opinion different from yours. Rather than indulging in feelings of hurt, which is natural when a situation doesn't turn out in our favor, try to replace it with respect for your friend's feelings. This will help you see it in a different light and move forward without the burden of hurt. Here are a few links that could be helpful : https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41735 https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41642 https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41615 https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41716 https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41639 Step One https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41640 Step Two https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41641 Step Three https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41645 Step Four https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41867