I was in a relationship for 3years I had sexual relationship that time and it was in total 20 times but then he ditched me and after 5 years of my break up I'm finally getting married to someone it is an arranged marriage I don't know much about him. And i didn't have any kind of sexual relationship with anyone after I got ditched and I want to ask you ppl my question should I tell him about me being non virgin ? And I'm not loose or anything so I want to know is there any way of knowing for sure that you're a virgin or not ? And I'm also not thinking about hymenoplasty or any kind of surgery or using capsules. Is bleeding the first time necessary? Also are their any tests which can tell you if you're a virgin or not?? Please clear my doubts.